The real charm is that it exudes all-round
and unique bearing from inside to outside. Real charm includes not only the
appearance of temperament, inner self-restraint, life experience, life style,
broad mind, the height of thought, the richness of life, and the purity of
So how to improve their charm? I think
self-discipline is very important. Self discipline is a very rare and valuable
character. At the same time, self-discipline includes self-control.
At home, there may be parents to supervise;
in school, teachers may supervise; in the workplace, perhaps there are
supervisors. Usually, there will be a sense of oppression when someone
supervises something, so many people yearn for freedom. Kant said that real
freedom is not what you want to do, but what you don’t want to do.
First learn to restrain yourself and
control life with a strict schedule, in order to constantly hone
self-confidence in this kind of self-discipline. A self disciplined person,
usually without being reminded by others, has a very clear goal both in school
and in the workplace.
A self-discipline person, usually will face
life positively, whether it is good or bad, well aware that there are blessings
hidden behind everything. The most obvious manifestation of self-discipline is
people who like to keep fit. People who are strong and fit must have been
exercising in the gym for a long time. They go to the gym day after day. This
is self-discipline. Many people think it’s too hard to keep fit after going for
a few times, but for self-discipline people, a big and sexy body is their best